Behind Closed Doors

Have you ever thought on sex? On what it means to have sex or the meaning of two people being together? Should sex be something just for procreation or should it be something two people do to show how they feel about one another. Ah then when you realize this-does the flame between the two people burn brilliantly or is it fast and hot only to die out quickly after the heat has left the flame? Ah sex in some relationships remain basic, then some have intriguing fullfilling sex lives where they can not find and end to their hunger for each other. But then there are the relationships where the couple loves each other greatly yet out of the time they are together their sex life went from hot embers to that of smoldering coals. Still hot for each yet it seems there is a staleness to the passion. Just as coals in a fire you must stir them up once in a while to allow air to reach them so that they may burn brighter and even ignite again. But the issues that insues in this relationship is the male is all but willing to be with teh woman yet, he is timid about showing this to his woman. The woman has told her lover many times it is not she is not attracted to him just not attracted to the way he introduces himself for a eveningof pleasure. Women usually do not do well when they become bored with a scenario in their life or behind doors. Women love to have a bit of play in the room or else where. Then there is the timing...do not wait until it is time for sleep because if one is reading theirselves for bed, this does not necessarilly mean they are game for sex because they are in bed. But alas men must view this as the only time for "making love".

Ah my rant is done for now..perhaps I will write more on this later. For now I must go to bed it is late and I have work tomorrow.