Sometimes I wonder why I get to be the oldest? It kills me when I see things and wonder boy should I say something. Like now my younger sister she has problems with relationships and I always see her latch onto either people way younger than her or older than her. Now she has friends who are older than her, and quite frankly one of them mothers her a bit too much for me. I wish for her to have friends closer to her age that do not have children. My sister is 19 and I think she should have friends closer to her and try to find friends who have similar interest as she does. But when I try to talk to her she gets all touchy about it. I tell my roomie adn boyfriend I can't talk to her about it bc she will take it the wrong way. And yes she takes adn took it the wrong way.
Go figure.
I hear her say she wants this and she wants that- well she doesn't understand to get that you need to get out of the house and be with people closer to your age group. Yeah I love she has friends but she doesn't need friends who can't help her grow. When you are with people older than you sometimes it is a negative thing, because they have done the things that younger people should do already and don't care to do it again. I am 28 and one of my closest friends is 50. Its nice to talk and hang out with her from time to time but sometimes I find myself kind of smothered. But when I hang out with people closer to my age it is different.
I wish my sister would realize why I am pushing for her to make friends with people closer to her dreams. How will she ever know what it is to be a teenager if she doesn't have teenage friends? Oh well...I guess it doesn't matter. She will do how ever, but her one friend will not be allowed in my home again until I figure out what it is about her that irks me and my boyfriend so much. There is something that we both do not like and therefore do not feel comfortable with her in our house.
I don't know. This was a rant....I guess I will go for now. Sigh...big sister HA I guess I am the EVIL Sister.
Go figure.
I hear her say she wants this and she wants that- well she doesn't understand to get that you need to get out of the house and be with people closer to your age group. Yeah I love she has friends but she doesn't need friends who can't help her grow. When you are with people older than you sometimes it is a negative thing, because they have done the things that younger people should do already and don't care to do it again. I am 28 and one of my closest friends is 50. Its nice to talk and hang out with her from time to time but sometimes I find myself kind of smothered. But when I hang out with people closer to my age it is different.
I wish my sister would realize why I am pushing for her to make friends with people closer to her dreams. How will she ever know what it is to be a teenager if she doesn't have teenage friends? Oh well...I guess it doesn't matter. She will do how ever, but her one friend will not be allowed in my home again until I figure out what it is about her that irks me and my boyfriend so much. There is something that we both do not like and therefore do not feel comfortable with her in our house.
I don't know. This was a rant....I guess I will go for now. Sigh...big sister HA I guess I am the EVIL Sister.
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